Preemptive Diplomacy - Everyone Can Play

There are a few things in life that have proved true over time:

• HDTV is not a good thing when watching news anchors that have had too much plastic surgery.

• Permanently wearing a blue-tooth earpiece does not make you richer, more professional, or more respected. It just makes you look like you wish you were a part of the Borg’s collective consciousness.

• Our most treasured gifts are not the most expensive, but are the ones that have a person behind them.

When it comes to foreign aid, we must remember that without a human face, human sweat, and human relationships, free money can become an obstacle.

Greg Mortenson, of Three Cups of Tea and the Central Asia Institute, is successful working as an American in the least likely of places for one reason: he understands money is not enough. His work building schools in rural Pakistan and Afghanistan has impacted thousands of lives only because of the personal relationships he has forged.

Anyone can dump money on a problem and hope it goes away. But without personal interaction, often the money is spent unwisely, used to feed corruption, or enhances the power of despots and dictators.

Often the change we seek is only possible through human relationships. Money is the essential starting ingredient, but without a human heart behind development aid, the original sacrifice is lost. And the original intention – generating goodwill toward our nation – is lost with it.

Mortenson spent years showing – not telling – the people of northern Pakistan what his intentions were. There were no radio shows regurgitating talking points to convince the people of his values; there were no fliers dropped from airplanes with illustrations to show his objective; there was no generic building erected with a signboard in front bearing his insignia or nation’s flag.

There was only Mortenson – an American visiting, living, respecting, learning and talking with the very people he aspired to help.

As events over the last 8 years have shown, America ignores the rest of the world to the detriment of its own security. Our future foreign policy needs to revolve around development assistance. Foreign aid – if handled appropriately – can act as preemptive diplomacy. Yet just as we would never appoint a bag of money as an ambassador, how can shipping suitcases of cash with only a sender’s address hold any meaning for the people we aim to help?

By successfully combining these two agents of change in American society – those people that can donate money, and those people that can donate time – we can create a new era of American foreign policy that truly will make our world more secure. We have spent the last 8 years sending money abroad as a sign of our good intentions, but have accompanied that aid with soldiers, guns, torture, and air strikes.

We need to stop sending conflicting messages and show the world a human face to go with our human charity. We have to stop sending our military out on diplomatic errands to deliver briefcases of cash without knowing the names, lives, trials, and needs of the people we claim to be helping.

In the slums of Mumbai, Akanksha, an Indian-based NGO, organizes classes of young teenagers for two-and-a-half hours each afternoon to help with their studies.

[...inside an Akanksha classroom in Mumbai...]

Akanksha students stand out from their peers, and not just because they do better in school. Akanksha children have high self-esteem, are not afraid to practice their broken English, are less likely to acknowledge religious differences with their friends, and even stay healthier and cleaner (though some still refuse to wear shoes).

Akanksha has many donors, foreign and domestic (but as with any non-profit – not enough). They also have dozens of teachers who devote their time – some of them Westerners, some of them Indians with experience living in the U.S.: wealthy housewives who teach an after-school class everyday; under-grads from the U.S. that volunteer their spring break; mothers in the slums that find paying jobs at the centers, thereby earning respect in their communities; Indian engineering graduates who spend months tutoring math before starting a career.

I have seen firsthand the impact that personal relationships can have between the first and third worlds. I have seen the smiles that make you want to cry, the hope that grows with each sign of friendship, the confidence that builds with each word of praise, and the future that brightens with each passing day.

As we set out in 2009 with a new president – and hopefully a new foreign policy – we have the necessary resources to succeed in preemptive diplomacy. There is no shortage of Americans who want to be the face on the front line, and neither is there a shortage of those who want to donate money or supplies. At some point, we must separate war from diplomacy; we need to distinguish between real humanitarian aid and bribes.

To really have an impact, we must focus on establishing personal relationships alongside monetary donations – relationships between different cultures, religions, and people. We need to make sure we have American faces on the ground to devote the time, energy, and love necessary to show – not tell – the rest of the world what real American values are.

There are those Americans that volunteer their time. And those Americans that volunteer their hard-earned money. It’s a team effort. If the two are linked so that development aid recipients can see this connection, we’ve already done more for world peace than any armed “liberation” ever could.

Anyone interested in Akanksha (or who would like to donate), they have a New York office website at www.akanksha.org. I can personally vouch for the great work Akanksha does, and even the smallest donations go a long way in India.